"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hair Gel, is it bad for you?

Axcell

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I've been using hair gel for about 3 years now, and I've recently had people come up to me and say that hair gel causes baldness? Is there a gel that prevents this?
Is it just a myth? Does it depend on what type of hair gel you use, how much you use, and how often you apply it?

Currently, I have spiky hair and I apply it on a daily basis. I don't use very expensive gel ($4 US at the drug store), however, I make sure that it is alcohol-free,non-sticky, and I purchase a type of gel that has Pro vitamin B5, which is suppose to give it extra long hold while keeping my hair healthy and shiny.

Current ingredients in the gel I use:
Aqua, PVP, Glycerin, Carbomer, Polysorbate 20, parfum, peg-12 dimenthicone, Disodium Edta, Panthenol, Benzophenome-4, ben, etc.

I googled this, and searched this forum.. didn't find much. I found these responses:
"No it doesn't really cause hair loss or baldness literally... but if you over use it you can really dry your hair out b/c hair gel contaisn alcohol so it can get dried out and stiff and break off. So yes in a way you can loose a little hair. I suggest not using it all the time, maybe just when you go to work, or school or when you go out. but take a break from it when your at home by yourself or on the weekends maybe. and use a good conditioner on your hair when you shower so you can keep moisture in it"

Askmen.com states that it does not cause baldness... just want to confirm it with somebody who knows what they are talking about. There are many other sites more qualified than askmen which state it can cause baldness as well.
URL for askmen.com: http://ca.askmen.com/sports/health_60/92_mens_health.html

Thanks for your time,
Nick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ValleyDJing

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:eek: ...Ok, now I'm worried. I don't use a ton at a time, but I use it every day. So far I don't think I've lost any hair.
 

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Not all gels have alcohol. I have used various types of gel, wax, and pomades religiously for almost 10 years now and the woman who cuts my hair is always talking about how thick it is, I'll never go bald, etc. My friend Chris is 24, almost completely bald, and never used gel in his life.

It's all about genetics, my friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boschy

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I've thought about this too. Some things I consider potentially harmful:

- Wash your hair too often and/or too vigorously (fingernails across the scalp).
- Use blow drier too often and/or too long.
- Use a lot of hair products and/or chemicals.
- Have your shower water too hot.
- Get too much sun exposure.
- Comb is too sharp or you press to hard.

Like one poster said, I try to give my hair at least one rest day on weekends. No product, combing, washing, styling etc.

Where is the scientific proof? I have none, but if you want to get the full story, a visit to a scalp specialist is advisable.
 

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You could just stop being trendy and not spike your hair.
 

Axcell

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I've noticed a great improvement with my outer game by spiking my hair, so I don't think it is an option. I just wanted to see if it was bad for you, so I could change either the type of gel I use, or use a different hair product.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Improver21

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hair gel is out.

use crude clay to create the matte, bed hair look.

looks natural, stylish yet effortless, probably slightly-emo, but its in.

OR SO I THINK IT IS.
 

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oh. and it wont dry hard like gel and splatter everywhere in small particles when u touch it or get bumped.

OR SO I THINK.
 

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i have dreadlocks. some chicks dig it. what kan i do to make it look hot natrual
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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