"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hair Gel, is it bad for you?

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I've been using hair gel for about 3 years now, and I've recently had people come up to me and say that hair gel causes baldness? Is there a gel that prevents this?
Is it just a myth? Does it depend on what type of hair gel you use, how much you use, and how often you apply it?

Currently, I have spiky hair and I apply it on a daily basis. I don't use very expensive gel ($4 US at the drug store), however, I make sure that it is alcohol-free,non-sticky, and I purchase a type of gel that has Pro vitamin B5, which is suppose to give it extra long hold while keeping my hair healthy and shiny.

Current ingredients in the gel I use:
Aqua, PVP, Glycerin, Carbomer, Polysorbate 20, parfum, peg-12 dimenthicone, Disodium Edta, Panthenol, Benzophenome-4, ben, etc.

I googled this, and searched this forum.. didn't find much. I found these responses:
"No it doesn't really cause hair loss or baldness literally... but if you over use it you can really dry your hair out b/c hair gel contaisn alcohol so it can get dried out and stiff and break off. So yes in a way you can loose a little hair. I suggest not using it all the time, maybe just when you go to work, or school or when you go out. but take a break from it when your at home by yourself or on the weekends maybe. and use a good conditioner on your hair when you shower so you can keep moisture in it"

Askmen.com states that it does not cause baldness... just want to confirm it with somebody who knows what they are talking about. There are many other sites more qualified than askmen which state it can cause baldness as well.
URL for askmen.com: http://ca.askmen.com/sports/health_60/92_mens_health.html

Thanks for your time,
Nick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ValleyDJing

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:eek: ...Ok, now I'm worried. I don't use a ton at a time, but I use it every day. So far I don't think I've lost any hair.
 

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Not all gels have alcohol. I have used various types of gel, wax, and pomades religiously for almost 10 years now and the woman who cuts my hair is always talking about how thick it is, I'll never go bald, etc. My friend Chris is 24, almost completely bald, and never used gel in his life.

It's all about genetics, my friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boschy

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I've thought about this too. Some things I consider potentially harmful:

- Wash your hair too often and/or too vigorously (fingernails across the scalp).
- Use blow drier too often and/or too long.
- Use a lot of hair products and/or chemicals.
- Have your shower water too hot.
- Get too much sun exposure.
- Comb is too sharp or you press to hard.

Like one poster said, I try to give my hair at least one rest day on weekends. No product, combing, washing, styling etc.

Where is the scientific proof? I have none, but if you want to get the full story, a visit to a scalp specialist is advisable.
 

mrRuckus

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You could just stop being trendy and not spike your hair.
 

Axcell

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I've noticed a great improvement with my outer game by spiking my hair, so I don't think it is an option. I just wanted to see if it was bad for you, so I could change either the type of gel I use, or use a different hair product.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hair gel is out.

use crude clay to create the matte, bed hair look.

looks natural, stylish yet effortless, probably slightly-emo, but its in.

OR SO I THINK IT IS.
 

Improver21

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oh. and it wont dry hard like gel and splatter everywhere in small particles when u touch it or get bumped.

OR SO I THINK.
 

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i have dreadlocks. some chicks dig it. what kan i do to make it look hot natrual
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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