Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.horaholic said:All girls I've asked said they wouldnt like a man to be shaved. Just trim it down, so its not out of hand. I'd do it if my GF asked me to, though.
I don't think so. It's definitely not nearly as attractive as its shaved female counterpart.Exhumed said:What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.
Interesting...I've heard varying opinions on the subject from girls.servo1234567 said:I don't think so. It's definitely not nearly as attractive as its shaved female counterpart.
You are incorrect there. I'm American, have been with all American women and not one has ever said they wanted me trimmed or shaved in any way.Exhumed said:What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'm not advocating going without maintaining it. I just know that when I have shaved in the past, it looks like a scared chihuahua. It's trimmed up, just not bare.Exhumed said:Interesting...I've heard varying opinions on the subject from girls.
But I do know one thing...I've heard of girls refusing to go down on guys with a ton of hair down there, but I've never heard of the same thing happening to guys who shave it. So I dunno...my practice of shaving it once every two to three weeks is probably pretty effective then; it's there, but not to the point where it's curly and tangle-y.