"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hair "down there"

goodfoot

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What should I do with it? I was wondering cause I was watching a flick and I realized the guys are always hairless. I was wondering if this is preferred. Plus I have a bit of an odor going on and I think going hairless would take care of that.

I was also wondering how I would take the hair off, cause I don't think I'm steady enough to use a razor.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ease

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Clearly watching gay porn.

I shorten mine with scizzors, makes me feel manly yet groomed.
 

horaholic

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All girls I've asked said they wouldnt like a man to be shaved. Just trim it down, so its not out of hand. I'd do it if my GF asked me to, though.
 

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in my backyard, if i trim the bushes around the deck, it makes the deck look bigger. same goes with trimming your pubes. LOL
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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servo1234567

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Exhumed said:
What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.
I don't think so. It's definitely not nearly as attractive as its shaved female counterpart.
 

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I use a body trimmer. Having a bush looks gross.

Also if you do any sort of manual PE it's basically required to be trimmed.
 
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servo1234567 said:
I don't think so. It's definitely not nearly as attractive as its shaved female counterpart.
Interesting...I've heard varying opinions on the subject from girls.

But I do know one thing...I've heard of girls refusing to go down on guys with a ton of hair down there, but I've never heard of the same thing happening to guys who shave it. So I dunno...my practice of shaving it once every two to three weeks is probably pretty effective then; it's there, but not to the point where it's curly and tangle-y.
 

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Exhumed said:
What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.
You are incorrect there. I'm American, have been with all American women and not one has ever said they wanted me trimmed or shaved in any way.

I'm plenty hairy all down my front and legs, none on my back or shoulders and just a bit at the base of my back.

now, as for personal taste, everyone is different, but I can tell you that aside from all the cultural garbage, most women 'know' deep down that a decent looking hairy guy rev's their primal engine.

There's nothing wrong with it, within reason.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Exhumed said:
Interesting...I've heard varying opinions on the subject from girls.

But I do know one thing...I've heard of girls refusing to go down on guys with a ton of hair down there, but I've never heard of the same thing happening to guys who shave it. So I dunno...my practice of shaving it once every two to three weeks is probably pretty effective then; it's there, but not to the point where it's curly and tangle-y.
I'm not advocating going without maintaining it. I just know that when I have shaved in the past, it looks like a scared chihuahua. It's trimmed up, just not bare.
 

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trim don't shave.
just google, it's been asked a billion time on the net, on yahoo, in other forums, the majority of the answers say trim do not shave
and to be more specific they commented that shaving makes the guy look like a 9 year old that has not reached puberty...etc
 

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woman dont want to have to deal with hair. this is one thing I know for sure. woman are willing to do more with a freshley shaved @ss/penis. I have had woman without even asking do more just because I was freshly shaved. I have had guys tell me that the woman they are with come right out and said you need to shave this.
 
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