"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hair "down there"

goodfoot

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What should I do with it? I was wondering cause I was watching a flick and I realized the guys are always hairless. I was wondering if this is preferred. Plus I have a bit of an odor going on and I think going hairless would take care of that.

I was also wondering how I would take the hair off, cause I don't think I'm steady enough to use a razor.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ease

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Clearly watching gay porn.

I shorten mine with scizzors, makes me feel manly yet groomed.
 

horaholic

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All girls I've asked said they wouldnt like a man to be shaved. Just trim it down, so its not out of hand. I'd do it if my GF asked me to, though.
 

Joe Stud

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in my backyard, if i trim the bushes around the deck, it makes the deck look bigger. same goes with trimming your pubes. LOL
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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servo1234567

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Exhumed said:
What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.
I don't think so. It's definitely not nearly as attractive as its shaved female counterpart.
 

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I use a body trimmer. Having a bush looks gross.

Also if you do any sort of manual PE it's basically required to be trimmed.
 
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Exhumed

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servo1234567 said:
I don't think so. It's definitely not nearly as attractive as its shaved female counterpart.
Interesting...I've heard varying opinions on the subject from girls.

But I do know one thing...I've heard of girls refusing to go down on guys with a ton of hair down there, but I've never heard of the same thing happening to guys who shave it. So I dunno...my practice of shaving it once every two to three weeks is probably pretty effective then; it's there, but not to the point where it's curly and tangle-y.
 

radiodude

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Exhumed said:
What nationality are you? I'm pretty sure most girls in America like it shaved.
You are incorrect there. I'm American, have been with all American women and not one has ever said they wanted me trimmed or shaved in any way.

I'm plenty hairy all down my front and legs, none on my back or shoulders and just a bit at the base of my back.

now, as for personal taste, everyone is different, but I can tell you that aside from all the cultural garbage, most women 'know' deep down that a decent looking hairy guy rev's their primal engine.

There's nothing wrong with it, within reason.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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servo1234567

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Exhumed said:
Interesting...I've heard varying opinions on the subject from girls.

But I do know one thing...I've heard of girls refusing to go down on guys with a ton of hair down there, but I've never heard of the same thing happening to guys who shave it. So I dunno...my practice of shaving it once every two to three weeks is probably pretty effective then; it's there, but not to the point where it's curly and tangle-y.
I'm not advocating going without maintaining it. I just know that when I have shaved in the past, it looks like a scared chihuahua. It's trimmed up, just not bare.
 

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trim don't shave.
just google, it's been asked a billion time on the net, on yahoo, in other forums, the majority of the answers say trim do not shave
and to be more specific they commented that shaving makes the guy look like a 9 year old that has not reached puberty...etc
 

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woman dont want to have to deal with hair. this is one thing I know for sure. woman are willing to do more with a freshley shaved @ss/penis. I have had woman without even asking do more just because I was freshly shaved. I have had guys tell me that the woman they are with come right out and said you need to shave this.
 
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