"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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haha thought i'd share this

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messaged a girl via myspace saying "i dont think that's you in that pic. but let's talk sometime, whats your s/n?"

and she replied with "That's definitely me in the picture. And if you want me to get back to you, maybe you should use a "please" next time."

haha now i definetly dont want to respond with a "please" what should i say? i keep laughin how she's trying to establish power
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm no expert, but how about:

"yeah, maybe next time...whats ur screen name?"

it's what i'd do, but others may differ! go with what feels right dude, your the man, command her! ha
 
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just move on man. why do you want to talk to a woman like that. today she asked you to say please, next thing you know she will be whipping your azz..
 
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say if i say please do i get a bl0w-job
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Please please me.

Who cares what she wants, just eject and go after the next one. No wonder why all these broads feel so powerful online, yet they are a lot more humble when first contacted in person.
 
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cNfny said:
...haha now i definetly dont want to respond with a "please" what should i say? i keep laughin how she's trying to establish power
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"You will be pleased that you got back in touch with me."
 
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I'd next her, but best I can come up with for you is "Oh, so you're one of those women who is totally rude to other people pretending to demand manners?".

If you really want to amp it up add a "I've dumped a few girls for less".

That will get some sort of reaction. :)

cNfny said:
messaged a girl via myspace saying "i dont think that's you in that pic. but let's talk sometime, whats your s/n?"

and she replied with "That's definitely me in the picture. And if you want me to get back to you, maybe you should use a "please" next time."

haha now i definetly dont want to respond with a "please" what should i say? i keep laughin how she's trying to establish power
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damn all good responses, i should have waited. this is what i put:

"ooh right, i didn't realize your url was "classy"holyhooker.

what's your aim s/n? "please" ;)"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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