"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cNfny

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messaged a girl via myspace saying "i dont think that's you in that pic. but let's talk sometime, whats your s/n?"

and she replied with "That's definitely me in the picture. And if you want me to get back to you, maybe you should use a "please" next time."

haha now i definetly dont want to respond with a "please" what should i say? i keep laughin how she's trying to establish power
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jizzee

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I'm no expert, but how about:

"yeah, maybe next time...whats ur screen name?"

it's what i'd do, but others may differ! go with what feels right dude, your the man, command her! ha
 

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just move on man. why do you want to talk to a woman like that. today she asked you to say please, next thing you know she will be whipping your azz..
 

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say if i say please do i get a bl0w-job
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gangster Of Love

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Please please me.

Who cares what she wants, just eject and go after the next one. No wonder why all these broads feel so powerful online, yet they are a lot more humble when first contacted in person.
 

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cNfny said:
...haha now i definetly dont want to respond with a "please" what should i say? i keep laughin how she's trying to establish power
"You will be pleased that you got back in touch with me."
 
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I'd next her, but best I can come up with for you is "Oh, so you're one of those women who is totally rude to other people pretending to demand manners?".

If you really want to amp it up add a "I've dumped a few girls for less".

That will get some sort of reaction. :)

cNfny said:
messaged a girl via myspace saying "i dont think that's you in that pic. but let's talk sometime, whats your s/n?"

and she replied with "That's definitely me in the picture. And if you want me to get back to you, maybe you should use a "please" next time."

haha now i definetly dont want to respond with a "please" what should i say? i keep laughin how she's trying to establish power
 

cNfny

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damn all good responses, i should have waited. this is what i put:

"ooh right, i didn't realize your url was "classy"holyhooker.

what's your aim s/n? "please" ;)"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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