"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha.is this true????

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If women knew what they wanted, they would have conquered the world by now
 

DJDamage

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Agree:

- "Positive attitude"
- "expecting her to say yes"
- "Have confidence"
- "Don't just grab a girl out of nowhere from behind and say "hey ma" (although that will work on some ho's)
- " Don't tell a girl you want to bite her and conquer her on the street" (will work on ho's)
- "Don't yell your digits out" - shows that you have no balls to actually approach and do it right.

Disagree:
- "Best thing you can say to a girl "hey beautiful how are you doing today!"

- Nope not the best thing to put a woman on the pedestal from the get go. This princess hears that she is beautiful every day from desperate symps. A better way is just to go up and say "hey" and then enter into a C&F conversation and NEGS (especially when you are dealing with a Jewish American Princess who think you should lick her arse and call it icecream). You will know pretty quickly if the girl digs you or not. But if she is acting like a princess, then I rather approach someone nicer.
 

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DJDamage said:
A better way is just to go up and say "hey" and then enter into a C&F conversation and NEGS (especially when you are dealing with a Jewish American Princess who think you should lick her arse and call it icecream).
Hey, watch yourself! My oneitis was Jewish Canadian!

Funnily enough I worked her just right.

A little off-topic, but it might be useful for others... Here's how I landed her:

1. Knew her at school, not really a friend, just an acquaintance.
2. Spent plenty of time with her, thought she was cute, so I struggled to remain distant/aloof/disinterested. The reason being I had no desire to hit on her in front of her posse at school and had to wait for a better time, WITHOUT coming off as a friend.
3. At around the same time I was gaming another girl, not as cute but hey I ain't that picky... One day she comes up and starts hittin on me real hard, I mean like "Fvck me in the stairwell" hard. Instant DHV in front of target.
4. Start to see girl at parties, as usual I remain aloof and make good use of that time attracting other girls and having plenty of fun. This continued for a month or so, at 5-6 different parties.
5. I cut the school hangout b.s. so she just lost the center of her school social group. This was knowing that I'd be seeing plenty of her at upcoming parties.
6. Lo and behold, next party the two of us are at, guess who opens me? Yes sir, little miss petite Jewish Canadian girl. Introduce her to a bush hog(hefty fatty) I was incidentally good friends with and I make the "get me outta here" eyes to her privately.
7. We find a secluded spot and start talking, light at first then I throw in the heavier questions and get closer, threw in some kino and my signature move: put my hand on the girls' forehead and brush hair out of her face.
8. Made out for two minutes, I cut it short b/c a couple other girls noticed and were gonna start gossip(the bane of any DJ).
9. I decided to throw a party at my house, a big kegger pool party. Of course she came and right away I isolated her and left my best friend in charge.
10. The rest is history :)

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I didn't have to neg her or any of that fake b.s. Just plenty of DHVing and picking the right moments(The right moments = The times to escalate when she's LEAST LIKELY to say no).

cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what about when you don't kiss there ass and call it ice cream,but still have problems none the less?
 
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