CapedCrusader08
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
haha.is this true????
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Agree:
- "Positive attitude"
- "expecting her to say yes"
- "Have confidence"
- "Don't just grab a girl out of nowhere from behind and say "hey ma" (although that will work on some ho's)
- " Don't tell a girl you want to bite her and conquer her on the street" (will work on ho's)
- "Don't yell your digits out" - shows that you have no balls to actually approach and do it right.
Disagree:
- "Best thing you can say to a girl "hey beautiful how are you doing today!"
- Nope not the best thing to put a woman on the pedestal from the get go. This princess hears that she is beautiful every day from desperate symps. A better way is just to go up and say "hey" and then enter into a C&F conversation and NEGS (especially when you are dealing with a Jewish American Princess who think you should lick her arse and call it icecream). You will know pretty quickly if the girl digs you or not. But if she is acting like a princess, then I rather approach someone nicer.
- "Positive attitude"
- "expecting her to say yes"
- "Have confidence"
- "Don't just grab a girl out of nowhere from behind and say "hey ma" (although that will work on some ho's)
- " Don't tell a girl you want to bite her and conquer her on the street" (will work on ho's)
- "Don't yell your digits out" - shows that you have no balls to actually approach and do it right.
Disagree:
- "Best thing you can say to a girl "hey beautiful how are you doing today!"
- Nope not the best thing to put a woman on the pedestal from the get go. This princess hears that she is beautiful every day from desperate symps. A better way is just to go up and say "hey" and then enter into a C&F conversation and NEGS (especially when you are dealing with a Jewish American Princess who think you should lick her arse and call it icecream). You will know pretty quickly if the girl digs you or not. But if she is acting like a princess, then I rather approach someone nicer.
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Hey, watch yourself! My oneitis was Jewish Canadian!DJDamage said:
Funnily enough I worked her just right.
A little off-topic, but it might be useful for others... Here's how I landed her:
1. Knew her at school, not really a friend, just an acquaintance.
2. Spent plenty of time with her, thought she was cute, so I struggled to remain distant/aloof/disinterested. The reason being I had no desire to hit on her in front of her posse at school and had to wait for a better time, WITHOUT coming off as a friend.
3. At around the same time I was gaming another girl, not as cute but hey I ain't that picky... One day she comes up and starts hittin on me real hard, I mean like "Fvck me in the stairwell" hard. Instant DHV in front of target.
4. Start to see girl at parties, as usual I remain aloof and make good use of that time attracting other girls and having plenty of fun. This continued for a month or so, at 5-6 different parties.
5. I cut the school hangout b.s. so she just lost the center of her school social group. This was knowing that I'd be seeing plenty of her at upcoming parties.
6. Lo and behold, next party the two of us are at, guess who opens me? Yes sir, little miss petite Jewish Canadian girl. Introduce her to a bush hog(hefty fatty) I was incidentally good friends with and I make the "get me outta here" eyes to her privately.
7. We find a secluded spot and start talking, light at first then I throw in the heavier questions and get closer, threw in some kino and my signature move: put my hand on the girls' forehead and brush hair out of her face.
8. Made out for two minutes, I cut it short b/c a couple other girls noticed and were gonna start gossip(the bane of any DJ).
9. I decided to throw a party at my house, a big kegger pool party. Of course she came and right away I isolated her and left my best friend in charge.
10. The rest is history
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I didn't have to neg her or any of that fake b.s. Just plenty of DHVing and picking the right moments(The right moments = The times to escalate when she's LEAST LIKELY to say no).
cheers
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CapedCrusader08
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what about when you don't kiss there ass and call it ice cream,but still have problems none the less?