"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha.is this true????

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If women knew what they wanted, they would have conquered the world by now
 

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Agree:

- "Positive attitude"
- "expecting her to say yes"
- "Have confidence"
- "Don't just grab a girl out of nowhere from behind and say "hey ma" (although that will work on some ho's)
- " Don't tell a girl you want to bite her and conquer her on the street" (will work on ho's)
- "Don't yell your digits out" - shows that you have no balls to actually approach and do it right.

Disagree:
- "Best thing you can say to a girl "hey beautiful how are you doing today!"

- Nope not the best thing to put a woman on the pedestal from the get go. This princess hears that she is beautiful every day from desperate symps. A better way is just to go up and say "hey" and then enter into a C&F conversation and NEGS (especially when you are dealing with a Jewish American Princess who think you should lick her arse and call it icecream). You will know pretty quickly if the girl digs you or not. But if she is acting like a princess, then I rather approach someone nicer.
 

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DJDamage said:
A better way is just to go up and say "hey" and then enter into a C&F conversation and NEGS (especially when you are dealing with a Jewish American Princess who think you should lick her arse and call it icecream).
Hey, watch yourself! My oneitis was Jewish Canadian!

Funnily enough I worked her just right.

A little off-topic, but it might be useful for others... Here's how I landed her:

1. Knew her at school, not really a friend, just an acquaintance.
2. Spent plenty of time with her, thought she was cute, so I struggled to remain distant/aloof/disinterested. The reason being I had no desire to hit on her in front of her posse at school and had to wait for a better time, WITHOUT coming off as a friend.
3. At around the same time I was gaming another girl, not as cute but hey I ain't that picky... One day she comes up and starts hittin on me real hard, I mean like "Fvck me in the stairwell" hard. Instant DHV in front of target.
4. Start to see girl at parties, as usual I remain aloof and make good use of that time attracting other girls and having plenty of fun. This continued for a month or so, at 5-6 different parties.
5. I cut the school hangout b.s. so she just lost the center of her school social group. This was knowing that I'd be seeing plenty of her at upcoming parties.
6. Lo and behold, next party the two of us are at, guess who opens me? Yes sir, little miss petite Jewish Canadian girl. Introduce her to a bush hog(hefty fatty) I was incidentally good friends with and I make the "get me outta here" eyes to her privately.
7. We find a secluded spot and start talking, light at first then I throw in the heavier questions and get closer, threw in some kino and my signature move: put my hand on the girls' forehead and brush hair out of her face.
8. Made out for two minutes, I cut it short b/c a couple other girls noticed and were gonna start gossip(the bane of any DJ).
9. I decided to throw a party at my house, a big kegger pool party. Of course she came and right away I isolated her and left my best friend in charge.
10. The rest is history :)

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I didn't have to neg her or any of that fake b.s. Just plenty of DHVing and picking the right moments(The right moments = The times to escalate when she's LEAST LIKELY to say no).

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what about when you don't kiss there ass and call it ice cream,but still have problems none the less?
 
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