"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Had sex without a Condom- Scared sh!tless.

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Well, its not entirely true. We did it with a condom, but then took it off.

It was during a big 4-day festival...I was dead drunk, could barely get an erection...and she was high from something. Yes, not the best girl to pick out but give me a break please :) its not like I'm gonna see her again.

We had a fun night, brought her back to my tent and did what I did...barely felt anything (condom + massive amounts of alcohol). She sucked me for another half an hour but I never came. (again..b/c of the alcohol).

She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".

What should I do from here? I'm clueless...

Please give me some pointers, go see a doc right away? (I don't notice anything different [pain, redness] in my sacred region).

Really need your help guys.. thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Howard Roark

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The_Wolf said:
Well, its not entirely true. We did it with a condom, but then took it off.

It was during a big 4-day festival...I was dead drunk, could barely get an erection...and she was high from something. Yes, not the best girl to pick out but give me a break please :) its not like I'm gonna see her again.

We had a fun night, brought her back to my tent and did what I did...barely felt anything (condom + massive amounts of alcohol). She sucked me for another half an hour but I never came. (again..b/c of the alcohol).

She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".

What should I do from here? I'm clueless...

Please give me some pointers, go see a doc right away? (I don't notice anything different [pain, redness] in my sacred region).

Really need your help guys.. thanks.
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Go see a Doctor right away- he might be able to give you some profolactive antibiotics/anti-virals if he thinks you're at risk.
 
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Many STDs won't show up in a day. Even then, many don't show up for a long ass time.
 
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The_Wolf said:
She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".
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:crackup: Oh my, she told you that she was "clean". Yeah, now you should feel better. You were surely her first. :p

HPV. Read about it. Safe sex is helpless against it. It is my best friend. It validates my belief that "free love" is stupid, and that the only girls you should be interested in are virgins. If I was into banging sluts I would be scared silly every morning that I went to take a p***. I wouldn't be able to look down. Have you seen what an outbreak looks like? Leave the tramps for DJ's.

What sucks about life is that you can't go back and fix some of the stupid stuff that you do. This is one of the things you can't go back and fix.
 
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There is really no reason to get tested this quickly because even if you caught anything, they wouldn't show up on the STD test this early. It takes about a week to get symptoms and sometimes even months, and sometimes there are no symptoms at all. I would be worried about genital herpes if I were you. It's also not very hard to catch gonnorhea and clamydia, but those can be cured with antibiotics, but herpes can not be cured. And, warts are not a good thing to have on your member, but they are harmless, but you can pass them to other ppl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its harder for guys to catch that **** compared to women, i am sure you will be fine... a lot of STDs are curable and its harder for guys to catch HIV. so just wait a bit and go to the doc.
 
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Over one-fourth (28%) of all AIDS cases among men in the US occurred through injection drug use and heterosexual sexual contact. Over three-fourths of those cases were among men of color, with African-American men comprising more than half (55%).2 AIDS and HIV cases are classified by drug use and sexual act, and not by self-identification.http://www.caps.ucsf.edu/pubs/FS/revhetmen.php

So, as you can see, that most of AIDS cases for men in the US are from homosexual sex and through needle drug use.
 
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