"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Had sex without a Condom- Scared sh!tless.

The_Wolf

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Well, its not entirely true. We did it with a condom, but then took it off.

It was during a big 4-day festival...I was dead drunk, could barely get an erection...and she was high from something. Yes, not the best girl to pick out but give me a break please :) its not like I'm gonna see her again.

We had a fun night, brought her back to my tent and did what I did...barely felt anything (condom + massive amounts of alcohol). She sucked me for another half an hour but I never came. (again..b/c of the alcohol).

She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".

What should I do from here? I'm clueless...

Please give me some pointers, go see a doc right away? (I don't notice anything different [pain, redness] in my sacred region).

Really need your help guys.. thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Howard Roark

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The_Wolf said:
Well, its not entirely true. We did it with a condom, but then took it off.

It was during a big 4-day festival...I was dead drunk, could barely get an erection...and she was high from something. Yes, not the best girl to pick out but give me a break please :) its not like I'm gonna see her again.

We had a fun night, brought her back to my tent and did what I did...barely felt anything (condom + massive amounts of alcohol). She sucked me for another half an hour but I never came. (again..b/c of the alcohol).

She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".

What should I do from here? I'm clueless...

Please give me some pointers, go see a doc right away? (I don't notice anything different [pain, redness] in my sacred region).

Really need your help guys.. thanks.
Go see a Doctor right away- he might be able to give you some profolactive antibiotics/anti-virals if he thinks you're at risk.
 

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Many STDs won't show up in a day. Even then, many don't show up for a long ass time.
 

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The_Wolf said:
She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".
:crackup: Oh my, she told you that she was "clean". Yeah, now you should feel better. You were surely her first. :p

HPV. Read about it. Safe sex is helpless against it. It is my best friend. It validates my belief that "free love" is stupid, and that the only girls you should be interested in are virgins. If I was into banging sluts I would be scared silly every morning that I went to take a p***. I wouldn't be able to look down. Have you seen what an outbreak looks like? Leave the tramps for DJ's.

What sucks about life is that you can't go back and fix some of the stupid stuff that you do. This is one of the things you can't go back and fix.
 

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There is really no reason to get tested this quickly because even if you caught anything, they wouldn't show up on the STD test this early. It takes about a week to get symptoms and sometimes even months, and sometimes there are no symptoms at all. I would be worried about genital herpes if I were you. It's also not very hard to catch gonnorhea and clamydia, but those can be cured with antibiotics, but herpes can not be cured. And, warts are not a good thing to have on your member, but they are harmless, but you can pass them to other ppl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its harder for guys to catch that **** compared to women, i am sure you will be fine... a lot of STDs are curable and its harder for guys to catch HIV. so just wait a bit and go to the doc.
 

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Over one-fourth (28%) of all AIDS cases among men in the US occurred through injection drug use and heterosexual sexual contact. Over three-fourths of those cases were among men of color, with African-American men comprising more than half (55%).2 AIDS and HIV cases are classified by drug use and sexual act, and not by self-identification.http://www.caps.ucsf.edu/pubs/FS/revhetmen.php

So, as you can see, that most of AIDS cases for men in the US are from homosexual sex and through needle drug use.
 
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