Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Had sex without a Condom- Scared sh!tless.

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Well, its not entirely true. We did it with a condom, but then took it off.

It was during a big 4-day festival...I was dead drunk, could barely get an erection...and she was high from something. Yes, not the best girl to pick out but give me a break please :) its not like I'm gonna see her again.

We had a fun night, brought her back to my tent and did what I did...barely felt anything (condom + massive amounts of alcohol). She sucked me for another half an hour but I never came. (again..b/c of the alcohol).

She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".

What should I do from here? I'm clueless...

Please give me some pointers, go see a doc right away? (I don't notice anything different [pain, redness] in my sacred region).

Really need your help guys.. thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Howard Roark

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The_Wolf said:
Well, its not entirely true. We did it with a condom, but then took it off.

It was during a big 4-day festival...I was dead drunk, could barely get an erection...and she was high from something. Yes, not the best girl to pick out but give me a break please :) its not like I'm gonna see her again.

We had a fun night, brought her back to my tent and did what I did...barely felt anything (condom + massive amounts of alcohol). She sucked me for another half an hour but I never came. (again..b/c of the alcohol).

She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".

What should I do from here? I'm clueless...

Please give me some pointers, go see a doc right away? (I don't notice anything different [pain, redness] in my sacred region).

Really need your help guys.. thanks.
Go see a Doctor right away- he might be able to give you some profolactive antibiotics/anti-virals if he thinks you're at risk.
 

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Many STDs won't show up in a day. Even then, many don't show up for a long ass time.
 

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The_Wolf said:
She took those 72 hour pills that are pretty effective against pregnancy...but I still kinda worry about STD's, even though she told me she is "clean".
:crackup: Oh my, she told you that she was "clean". Yeah, now you should feel better. You were surely her first. :p

HPV. Read about it. Safe sex is helpless against it. It is my best friend. It validates my belief that "free love" is stupid, and that the only girls you should be interested in are virgins. If I was into banging sluts I would be scared silly every morning that I went to take a p***. I wouldn't be able to look down. Have you seen what an outbreak looks like? Leave the tramps for DJ's.

What sucks about life is that you can't go back and fix some of the stupid stuff that you do. This is one of the things you can't go back and fix.
 

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There is really no reason to get tested this quickly because even if you caught anything, they wouldn't show up on the STD test this early. It takes about a week to get symptoms and sometimes even months, and sometimes there are no symptoms at all. I would be worried about genital herpes if I were you. It's also not very hard to catch gonnorhea and clamydia, but those can be cured with antibiotics, but herpes can not be cured. And, warts are not a good thing to have on your member, but they are harmless, but you can pass them to other ppl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its harder for guys to catch that **** compared to women, i am sure you will be fine... a lot of STDs are curable and its harder for guys to catch HIV. so just wait a bit and go to the doc.
 

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Over one-fourth (28%) of all AIDS cases among men in the US occurred through injection drug use and heterosexual sexual contact. Over three-fourths of those cases were among men of color, with African-American men comprising more than half (55%).2 AIDS and HIV cases are classified by drug use and sexual act, and not by self-identification.http://www.caps.ucsf.edu/pubs/FS/revhetmen.php

So, as you can see, that most of AIDS cases for men in the US are from homosexual sex and through needle drug use.
 
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