Had my first ever tinder (OLD) date last night

[RickTheToad]

LOL

I'm personally not one to think that casual sex should be all that encouraged, and if you are going to engage in behavior like this you need to be extra cautious. You have no idea if this person may be infested with STDs. Maybe the woman gets pregnant and now you are faced with the possibilities of having a kid with someone you barely know. The woman could be a total headcase and by having sex with her you open up Pandora's box, no pun intended.

Most of the ladies on OLD are headcases. Remember, it's just your turn, she's not yours for the keeping. Yay feminism!!!

 

[sangheilios]

Most of the ladies on OLD are headcases. Remember, it's just your turn, she's not yours for the keeping. Yay feminism!!!

As bad as it sounds, there is a reason why those women are on there.

 

[sangheilios]

Sometimes it's like that - I had to meet with several women until I found my current GF but sometimes its the other way around with photos - meaning really attractive women don't put their best photos to evade phunphockerz and douchebags.

Some people just don't look as good in photos as they do in person and vice versa, where they look better in photos than in real life.

 

[skinnyguy]

You are better off jacking off to porn, my friend. These hoes are not worth 5 minutes of your time.

 

[JayAce]

I’ve been off OLD for over a year now, but I’m sure if I went to re-download Tinder I would see some of the same faces I saw when I was on the app in years past.

 

[evan12]

She had no real hobbies, interests, direction or future

These are masculine things , women who have them either fake them to be accepted or have masculine side, true feminine are boat in the sea , go with the wave.
I know what you felt, however you seem you took the meeting too seriously. Try to be more fun in future to open up the woman.

 

[MatureDJ]

Stop putting so much pressure on yourself for dating. Just go and enjoy the experience. I will also add, you should use online dating to better your game and experience with the ladies. Therefore, if/when a really attractive lady you want to get with comes into your orbit you'll be primed and ready. If she was DTF, you should had gone after it. Pvssy attracts pvssy. Ladies can smell it on you. It's a sixth sense.

Would you recommend that a man date fatties and then work his way up, LOL? Somehow I don't think that a man who associates himself with fatties is making attractive women become attracted to him.

 

[MatureDJ]

Another example, her phone case had Ariel and Flounder from the Little Mermaid on it so I asked her about it and she then went on this lecture about movies and actors.

I'd have been impressed that a gal could be intellectual enough to give a lecture. I like smart chicks, although a,m weary of lawyers since they are typically a PITA.

 

[sangheilios]

I'd have been impressed that a gal could be intellectual enough to give a lecture. I like smart chicks, although a,m weary of lawyers since they are typically a PITA.

It really wasn't a lecture but just some long winded one sided conversation about actors and celebrities. There was some degree of intelligence to it, obviously, but the fact that she cared so much about a topic and was discussing this with a guy she literally just met a couple minutes ago was a little off putting.

As I had mentioned on here earlier, when I asked her about what part of town she lived at she mentioned she lived with her sister and then went on this long winded rant about what her sister was like. This isn't normal to discuss things like that with some essentially random guy you met just minutes ago.

 

[RickTheToad]

Would you recommend that a man date fatties and then work his way up, LOL? Somehow I don't think that a man who associates himself with fatties is making attractive women become attracted to him.

On one hand, something is better than nothing. On the other hand, 10 - 15 lbs is not really fat, it's overweight. If she's willing to work on her body, I'd give it sometime. However, that would mean she'd be a submissive and agreeable in other aspects. You have millions of dudes, high value or not, sitting on the sidelines doing the knuckle shuffle when they can date and have sex with an lady who's attactive and a 10 - 15 lbs over weight; but no. They only want top shelf pvssy. I disagree. Now, again, I am talk 10 - 15 LBS, maybe even 20 LBS if mostly everything else is okay. I am not talking about Mama June, Tessa Holiday, etc.

Dudes have to be realistic and work up to the top shelf. Many won't and would rather b!tch and moan on the Internets during their off sessions with pornhub.