"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Had a first call and haven't heard from her since..

flowtheory

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present the first date idea quickly, to see if she’s actually interested, or you could really just be talking to a woman who’s wants an orbiter, so don’t waste your time; go for what you want whether she agrees to the date or not.
Getting the date and even having sex really doesn’t mean much at all. Don’t invest too deeply in women.
Go for what YOU want instead. Don’t wait for the woman.

No need for the long convos before the date. Just anchor down a small amount of rapport within 7 total messages. Plan the day, get the number, then make her swoon on the date. Be sexual, cool, humorous, and lead. Cut the fat. You’ll learn the more you attempt and experiment with it all. And soon you’ll be able to discern what’s a time waster and who is legit. Just change your current tactic. It’s all about fine tuning what you have.

Read the DJ Bible and The Rational Male.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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heh 95% of online chicks dont want to meet so dont bother
Not true at all. There are some but its relatively easy to get them out.

Rephrase that to say "don't want to meet ME" and it might a true statement for you.
 
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