"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Had a first call and haven't heard from her since..

flowtheory

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present the first date idea quickly, to see if she’s actually interested, or you could really just be talking to a woman who’s wants an orbiter, so don’t waste your time; go for what you want whether she agrees to the date or not.
Getting the date and even having sex really doesn’t mean much at all. Don’t invest too deeply in women.
Go for what YOU want instead. Don’t wait for the woman.

No need for the long convos before the date. Just anchor down a small amount of rapport within 7 total messages. Plan the day, get the number, then make her swoon on the date. Be sexual, cool, humorous, and lead. Cut the fat. You’ll learn the more you attempt and experiment with it all. And soon you’ll be able to discern what’s a time waster and who is legit. Just change your current tactic. It’s all about fine tuning what you have.

Read the DJ Bible and The Rational Male.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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heh 95% of online chicks dont want to meet so dont bother
Not true at all. There are some but its relatively easy to get them out.

Rephrase that to say "don't want to meet ME" and it might a true statement for you.
 
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