"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Had a first call and haven't heard from her since..

flowtheory

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present the first date idea quickly, to see if she’s actually interested, or you could really just be talking to a woman who’s wants an orbiter, so don’t waste your time; go for what you want whether she agrees to the date or not.
Getting the date and even having sex really doesn’t mean much at all. Don’t invest too deeply in women.
Go for what YOU want instead. Don’t wait for the woman.

No need for the long convos before the date. Just anchor down a small amount of rapport within 7 total messages. Plan the day, get the number, then make her swoon on the date. Be sexual, cool, humorous, and lead. Cut the fat. You’ll learn the more you attempt and experiment with it all. And soon you’ll be able to discern what’s a time waster and who is legit. Just change your current tactic. It’s all about fine tuning what you have.

Read the DJ Bible and The Rational Male.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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heh 95% of online chicks dont want to meet so dont bother
Not true at all. There are some but its relatively easy to get them out.

Rephrase that to say "don't want to meet ME" and it might a true statement for you.
 
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