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[Rainman4707]

Viewed HB8.8 on match. I found her profile attractive so I sent her a message

Rainman : Hi Siobhan, i'm Rainman =) Harry Potter, that is so gay, even gayer than Justin Bieber! I'm working with a Scottish bloke today..i cannot understand one fu*king word he is saying! Hmm if you do make good flapjacks then there is a really good chance i would choose you over other women. Well you sound like you might be more than just a pretty face. I like it that you are quiet & reserved. I think we could be a good match.

She replied : Hi, I didnt want to be rude and ignore your message, but I think I'm looking for someone more liberal minded than yourself. You probably aren't aware but your message had both sexist and homophobic conotations, neither of which I am okay with.

No offence is meant and good luck on the site.

I was going to reply with : Ok, have fun

She had Blacklisted me though. Bitc*

 

[Rainman4707]

I followed Dave M's advice from his Online Dating Program :-

1. Introduce yourself.

2. Bust her I.e I couldn’t get my pics up because you took up all the room win yours or my granny had that dress from primark or gotta love a woman who does taibo .

3. About me I.e my qualities.

4. Her profile find something that interests me I.e something in backround or something she's wearing

5. Qualify her I.e what do your friends say about you or whats the most adventurous thing you've done or whats your favorite food

6. call to action I.e look were both on here to meet someone so I think you’d be foolish if we dont speak at least once.

When she replys answer her & say thanks for response am busy whats your number.

 

[jurry]

Your message was horrific. What the fvck were you even talking about? Theres a big difference between teasing a girl and coming off as a total prick.

Dont follow some douchebags tips on what to say online to a girl. Say what YOU want to say and what feels right.

 

[Rainman4707]

Read it & you'll see what I was talking about. I did write what I wanted to write.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Sorry but your message comes off as homophobic, ignorant, sexist, lame, and trying for attention.

That site is a graveyard of damaged, low quality chicks anyway. Do yourself a favor and just go to the fvcking mall or bookstore or bar. If you're gonna do the hookup/online game thing, just get Tinder

 

[Rainman4707]

Wow. Thanks for the feedback guys. Appreciated.

 

[jurry]

Your message was all over the place how would she even respond to it? Harry potter? Flapjacks? Some scottish dude? You're making it too complicated.. Keep it simple, keep it short. Hi im xyz, insert comment/question about her profile, done. Or just ask her out on first message.

 

[Rainman4707]

Keep it simple, keep it short. Hi im xyz, insert comment/question about her profile, done. Or just ask her out on first message.

That would work, but I think everyone will do that. Everyone will use canned lines too. Everyone has different methods. I do ok online.