"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HA! I got owned!

Shivastorm_88

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got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Shivastorm_88 said:
got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
Why is that a "no"?

I wouldn't go out during finals either.
 

Nutz

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Shivastorm_88 said:
got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
If she gets 2 chances, why you nexting already? She should be getting her second chance in 2 weeks, right?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shivastorm_88

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Nutz said:
If she gets 2 chances, why you nexting already? She should be getting her second chance in 2 weeks, right?
heh my bad I think I didn't write my whole properly -_-

Yes I will call her back in two weeks, I'm just saying I smell this as a bad excuse for saying no o_O
 

Prodigy746

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Actually there is nothing wrong with her not wanting to go out during finals. I have 5 classes and i dont want to go out right now either..

My finals are in a week...
 
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