"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HA! I got owned!

Shivastorm_88

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got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Shivastorm_88 said:
got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
Why is that a "no"?

I wouldn't go out during finals either.
 

Nutz

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Shivastorm_88 said:
got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
If she gets 2 chances, why you nexting already? She should be getting her second chance in 2 weeks, right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shivastorm_88

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Nutz said:
If she gets 2 chances, why you nexting already? She should be getting her second chance in 2 weeks, right?
heh my bad I think I didn't write my whole properly -_-

Yes I will call her back in two weeks, I'm just saying I smell this as a bad excuse for saying no o_O
 

Prodigy746

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Actually there is nothing wrong with her not wanting to go out during finals. I have 5 classes and i dont want to go out right now either..

My finals are in a week...
 
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