"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HA! I got owned!

Shivastorm_88

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got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Shivastorm_88 said:
got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
Why is that a "no"?

I wouldn't go out during finals either.
 

Nutz

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Shivastorm_88 said:
got a HB8's number last week, asked her out today, she asked me if it could be possible to postpone it in 2 weeks after the finals... I think it's a pretty definite "no" :D

Oh well, my rule of thumb is every ***** gets two chances



That is all, I'm bored

(hidden message behind this: Who ****ing cares if you get rejected? Laugh it off, roll with it)
If she gets 2 chances, why you nexting already? She should be getting her second chance in 2 weeks, right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shivastorm_88

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Nutz said:
If she gets 2 chances, why you nexting already? She should be getting her second chance in 2 weeks, right?
heh my bad I think I didn't write my whole properly -_-

Yes I will call her back in two weeks, I'm just saying I smell this as a bad excuse for saying no o_O
 

Prodigy746

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Actually there is nothing wrong with her not wanting to go out during finals. I have 5 classes and i dont want to go out right now either..

My finals are in a week...
 
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