"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gyming vs sex??

RSDCharlie

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Has anyone who has been a regular to the gym noticed this? The more you workout, the more the need for sex and chasing girls goes down?

I have noticed this alot, whenever im back from a good workout, my mind is mentally at peace. The last thing i want is to go through the drama of chasing girls. I find it a bit useless. However, when im not regularly working out, i become a bit needy towards sex and try to approach or impress girls more and more.

A good workout makes the need go away.

Who else has felt this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pierce Manhammer

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Can’t say I have. If anything it increases my already ridiculous sex drive.
 

Machine10033

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The only time it lowers my drive is when I am absolutely exhausted. When I was much younger and foolish I used to cut into single digit body fat levels... prior to going on vacation or spring break. I would look awesome but it was counterproductive because it killed my hormones and I got more excited over eating than puss
 

BackInTheGame78

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No...if you are lifting weights at the gym it should be boosting your T levels which should make you want to fvck even more
 

HaleyBaron

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I'm horny after gym, especially after a protein shake or a after workout meal. The only time I wasnt when over exhaustion from peak hours during workouts where my body is tired. It seems cutting seems to affect my desire too, but Ive recently seen it recover once my body got acclimated with my new low fat. It is not about wanting to **** women constantly. It is about being ready to **** the woman you like when the time comes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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