"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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- Thread starter kenstar1
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Igetit!
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You two "talk n whatever"?kenstar1 said:There this girl at my gym right we talk n what ever.
Ok,um....what do you two talk about?
What EXACTLY do you two talk about?
Also,what is it you want with this girl? Do you want to just say "hi",talk about the weather for a bit,then say "bye",or is there something else you had in mind?
How long have you known this girl? And how long her this "talking" been going on between you two?kenstar1 said:but things have been going weird. like she won't say nothing to me unless i do it first.
So you two have a better time texting than you do in person?kenstar1 said:but when we txt over the phone we have a good time tho.
That's bad.
So what do you two talk about when you text each other?
PLEASE answer each question I asked accurately.
Igetit!
Moderator
"Spittin game"?kenstar1 said:its mostly me just spittin game at her.
Uhh... could you be a little more specific?
I need to know EXACTLY what you two talk about and what you two text each other about.
EXACTLY.
Consider this forum to be "911" for dating. You came here seeking help,right?
Well if I have an emergency and I call 911 and they ask me where I live,I'm not going to say,"Oh,I stay in the city".
I'm going to give them EXACT INFORMATION.
Well that's what we need from you. I need you to answer the questions DIRECTLY.
Question #1)What do you want with this girl?
Question #2)Have you ever asked her out? And if so,what did she say?
Question #3)If you haven't asked her out yet after knowing her for three months,WHY NOT?
Question #4)WHAT DO YOU TWO TALK ABOUT? In person,and in the texting?
Please...PLEASE answer the questions DIRECTLY.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Umm mate, maybe she got bored of you using small sentence, somegirls are shy and talk better over txting and need a little more work from you in person.
hope i helped a little
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.