"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kenstar1

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There this girl at my gym right we talk n what ever. but things have been going weird. like she won't say nothing to me unless i do it first. but when we txt over the phone we have a good time tho.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kenstar1 said:
There this girl at my gym right we talk n what ever.
You two "talk n whatever"?

Ok,um....what do you two talk about?

What EXACTLY do you two talk about?


Also,what is it you want with this girl? Do you want to just say "hi",talk about the weather for a bit,then say "bye",or is there something else you had in mind?


kenstar1 said:
but things have been going weird. like she won't say nothing to me unless i do it first.
How long have you known this girl? And how long her this "talking" been going on between you two?


kenstar1 said:
but when we txt over the phone we have a good time tho.
So you two have a better time texting than you do in person?

That's bad.

So what do you two talk about when you text each other?



PLEASE answer each question I asked accurately.
 

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kenstar1 said:
its mostly me just spittin game at her.
"Spittin game"?

Uhh... could you be a little more specific?

I need to know EXACTLY what you two talk about and what you two text each other about.


EXACTLY.


Consider this forum to be "911" for dating. You came here seeking help,right?


Well if I have an emergency and I call 911 and they ask me where I live,I'm not going to say,"Oh,I stay in the city".


I'm going to give them EXACT INFORMATION.


Well that's what we need from you. I need you to answer the questions DIRECTLY.


Question #1)What do you want with this girl?

Question #2)Have you ever asked her out? And if so,what did she say?

Question #3)If you haven't asked her out yet after knowing her for three months,WHY NOT?

Question #4)WHAT DO YOU TWO TALK ABOUT? In person,and in the texting?



Please...PLEASE answer the questions DIRECTLY.
 

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haha keep trying igetit! lol

Umm mate, maybe she got bored of you using small sentence, somegirls are shy and talk better over txting and need a little more work from you in person.

hope i helped a little
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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