"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Igetit!
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You two "talk n whatever"?kenstar1 said:There this girl at my gym right we talk n what ever.
Ok,um....what do you two talk about?
What EXACTLY do you two talk about?
Also,what is it you want with this girl? Do you want to just say "hi",talk about the weather for a bit,then say "bye",or is there something else you had in mind?
How long have you known this girl? And how long her this "talking" been going on between you two?kenstar1 said:but things have been going weird. like she won't say nothing to me unless i do it first.
So you two have a better time texting than you do in person?kenstar1 said:but when we txt over the phone we have a good time tho.
That's bad.
So what do you two talk about when you text each other?
PLEASE answer each question I asked accurately.
Igetit!
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"Spittin game"?kenstar1 said:its mostly me just spittin game at her.
Uhh... could you be a little more specific?
I need to know EXACTLY what you two talk about and what you two text each other about.
EXACTLY.
Consider this forum to be "911" for dating. You came here seeking help,right?
Well if I have an emergency and I call 911 and they ask me where I live,I'm not going to say,"Oh,I stay in the city".
I'm going to give them EXACT INFORMATION.
Well that's what we need from you. I need you to answer the questions DIRECTLY.
Question #1)What do you want with this girl?
Question #2)Have you ever asked her out? And if so,what did she say?
Question #3)If you haven't asked her out yet after knowing her for three months,WHY NOT?
Question #4)WHAT DO YOU TWO TALK ABOUT? In person,and in the texting?
Please...PLEASE answer the questions DIRECTLY.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Umm mate, maybe she got bored of you using small sentence, somegirls are shy and talk better over txting and need a little more work from you in person.
hope i helped a little
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.