"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Igetit!
Moderator
You two "talk n whatever"?kenstar1 said:There this girl at my gym right we talk n what ever.
Ok,um....what do you two talk about?
What EXACTLY do you two talk about?
Also,what is it you want with this girl? Do you want to just say "hi",talk about the weather for a bit,then say "bye",or is there something else you had in mind?
How long have you known this girl? And how long her this "talking" been going on between you two?kenstar1 said:but things have been going weird. like she won't say nothing to me unless i do it first.
So you two have a better time texting than you do in person?kenstar1 said:but when we txt over the phone we have a good time tho.
That's bad.
So what do you two talk about when you text each other?
PLEASE answer each question I asked accurately.
Igetit!
Moderator
"Spittin game"?kenstar1 said:its mostly me just spittin game at her.
Uhh... could you be a little more specific?
I need to know EXACTLY what you two talk about and what you two text each other about.
EXACTLY.
Consider this forum to be "911" for dating. You came here seeking help,right?
Well if I have an emergency and I call 911 and they ask me where I live,I'm not going to say,"Oh,I stay in the city".
I'm going to give them EXACT INFORMATION.
Well that's what we need from you. I need you to answer the questions DIRECTLY.
Question #1)What do you want with this girl?
Question #2)Have you ever asked her out? And if so,what did she say?
Question #3)If you haven't asked her out yet after knowing her for three months,WHY NOT?
Question #4)WHAT DO YOU TWO TALK ABOUT? In person,and in the texting?
Please...PLEASE answer the questions DIRECTLY.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Umm mate, maybe she got bored of you using small sentence, somegirls are shy and talk better over txting and need a little more work from you in person.
hope i helped a little
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.