"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys Worry About Body Image

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who are the 18% idiots?

If someone says they wouldn't change anything about their body, they better be cut as someone like Michael Phelps with his swimmer body, or whatever bodytype one prefers taken to its respective perfection.
 
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Phelps really is probably one of the sexiest men alive. If I were a chick I would seriously want a piece of that.
 
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Adam B said:
Phelps really is probably one of the sexiest men alive. If I were a chick I would seriously want a piece of that.
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I heard a quote somewhere that goes along the lines of "once you're content with yourself you stop trying to improve." I take this to mean that you should always continue to work or you'll go stagnant, lose focus, and begin to regress.

I know that I, for one, am not content with my body, and that is precisely why I'm working on it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, looks may be mattering more for guys now...just look at Scarlett Johansson fiancée, Ryan Reynolds.

And look who Angelina Jolie is with (Brad Pitt). Etc.

So, there seems to be growing pressure on us to muscle up, to cater to the hot girls (who care more and can be pickier about such things).
 
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wayword said:
Well, looks may be mattering more for guys now...just look at Scarlett Johansson fiancée, Ryan Reynolds.

And look who Angelina Jolie is with (Brad Pitt). Etc.

So, there seems to be growing pressure on us to muscle up, to cater to the hot girls (who care more and can be pickier about such things).
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Hot moviestars dating other hot moviestars? NO WAI.
 
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