"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys Worry About Body Image

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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azanon

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Who are the 18% idiots?

If someone says they wouldn't change anything about their body, they better be cut as someone like Michael Phelps with his swimmer body, or whatever bodytype one prefers taken to its respective perfection.
 

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Phelps really is probably one of the sexiest men alive. If I were a chick I would seriously want a piece of that.
 

insidious

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Adam B said:
Phelps really is probably one of the sexiest men alive. If I were a chick I would seriously want a piece of that.
:nervous:
 

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I heard a quote somewhere that goes along the lines of "once you're content with yourself you stop trying to improve." I take this to mean that you should always continue to work or you'll go stagnant, lose focus, and begin to regress.

I know that I, for one, am not content with my body, and that is precisely why I'm working on it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well, looks may be mattering more for guys now...just look at Scarlett Johansson fiancée, Ryan Reynolds.

And look who Angelina Jolie is with (Brad Pitt). Etc.

So, there seems to be growing pressure on us to muscle up, to cater to the hot girls (who care more and can be pickier about such things).
 

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wayword said:
Well, looks may be mattering more for guys now...just look at Scarlett Johansson fiancée, Ryan Reynolds.

And look who Angelina Jolie is with (Brad Pitt). Etc.

So, there seems to be growing pressure on us to muscle up, to cater to the hot girls (who care more and can be pickier about such things).
Hot moviestars dating other hot moviestars? NO WAI.
 
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