I used to be jealous of some of the guys that were always around girls. You know, sitting with a few female friends at a table. Walking a girl to her class at school...etc etc. Now I realize that these guys with all these female friends are the ones who aren't getting much action what so ever. Of my friends who have the most game, are the most confident etc...they don't even have 1 female friend. Sure they are great guys, and they do have some acquiantences but not any female friends. I guess I'm glad I'm not jealous of guys that have girly friends (who are usually good looking) because half the time they like them but were too scared to make a move. This probably isn't anything new but it's something I thought about recently and thought I'd point out.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Guys with lots of female friends
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sasha
Don Juan
Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Real Men dont have girl-friends...They have fcuk buddies
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I honestly have no female friends i cant keep a platonic realationship with a girl as can be seen with my current GF.
I can imagine it being an advantage if you have a girl friend with you, since other girls may think it's your GF and they are going to want you too. I don't have any experience with this cause I only have guy friends, but it might work for you. Don't find it very neccesar. You should be able to do fine without it.
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Who me? or the poster? because we are both saying we dont need or want female friends.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I have alot of female friends. There's alot of sexuality between us though. They like to call it "friends with benefits."
I call it fvck buddies.
I call it fvck buddies.
Big Eee Zee
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I have two very good female friends. There wont ever be anything between us, but having a good female friend can be a big plus, always good to have a "man on the inside".
Actually, one of em has been flaking and not returning my calls since she found some guy. Oh well. The same holds true with female friends and potential g/fs: if they flake on you, write that b!tch off.
Actually, one of em has been flaking and not returning my calls since she found some guy. Oh well. The same holds true with female friends and potential g/fs: if they flake on you, write that b!tch off.