I used to be jealous of some of the guys that were always around girls. You know, sitting with a few female friends at a table. Walking a girl to her class at school...etc etc. Now I realize that these guys with all these female friends are the ones who aren't getting much action what so ever. Of my friends who have the most game, are the most confident etc...they don't even have 1 female friend. Sure they are great guys, and they do have some acquiantences but not any female friends. I guess I'm glad I'm not jealous of guys that have girly friends (who are usually good looking) because half the time they like them but were too scared to make a move. This probably isn't anything new but it's something I thought about recently and thought I'd point out.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Guys with lots of female friends
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