I used to be jealous of some of the guys that were always around girls. You know, sitting with a few female friends at a table. Walking a girl to her class at school...etc etc. Now I realize that these guys with all these female friends are the ones who aren't getting much action what so ever. Of my friends who have the most game, are the most confident etc...they don't even have 1 female friend. Sure they are great guys, and they do have some acquiantences but not any female friends. I guess I'm glad I'm not jealous of guys that have girly friends (who are usually good looking) because half the time they like them but were too scared to make a move. This probably isn't anything new but it's something I thought about recently and thought I'd point out.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Guys with lots of female friends
- Thread starter green69
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sasha
Don Juan
Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Real Men dont have girl-friends...They have fcuk buddies
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I honestly have no female friends i cant keep a platonic realationship with a girl as can be seen with my current GF.
I can imagine it being an advantage if you have a girl friend with you, since other girls may think it's your GF and they are going to want you too. I don't have any experience with this cause I only have guy friends, but it might work for you. Don't find it very neccesar. You should be able to do fine without it.
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Who me? or the poster? because we are both saying we dont need or want female friends.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I have alot of female friends. There's alot of sexuality between us though. They like to call it "friends with benefits."
I call it fvck buddies.
I call it fvck buddies.
Big Eee Zee
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I have two very good female friends. There wont ever be anything between us, but having a good female friend can be a big plus, always good to have a "man on the inside".
Actually, one of em has been flaking and not returning my calls since she found some guy. Oh well. The same holds true with female friends and potential g/fs: if they flake on you, write that b!tch off.
Actually, one of em has been flaking and not returning my calls since she found some guy. Oh well. The same holds true with female friends and potential g/fs: if they flake on you, write that b!tch off.