I used to be jealous of some of the guys that were always around girls. You know, sitting with a few female friends at a table. Walking a girl to her class at school...etc etc. Now I realize that these guys with all these female friends are the ones who aren't getting much action what so ever. Of my friends who have the most game, are the most confident etc...they don't even have 1 female friend. Sure they are great guys, and they do have some acquiantences but not any female friends. I guess I'm glad I'm not jealous of guys that have girly friends (who are usually good looking) because half the time they like them but were too scared to make a move. This probably isn't anything new but it's something I thought about recently and thought I'd point out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Guys with lots of female friends
- Thread starter green69
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sasha
Don Juan
Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Real Men dont have girl-friends...They have fcuk buddies
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I honestly have no female friends i cant keep a platonic realationship with a girl as can be seen with my current GF.
I can imagine it being an advantage if you have a girl friend with you, since other girls may think it's your GF and they are going to want you too. I don't have any experience with this cause I only have guy friends, but it might work for you. Don't find it very neccesar. You should be able to do fine without it.
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Who me? or the poster? because we are both saying we dont need or want female friends.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I have alot of female friends. There's alot of sexuality between us though. They like to call it "friends with benefits."
I call it fvck buddies.
I call it fvck buddies.
Big Eee Zee
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I have two very good female friends. There wont ever be anything between us, but having a good female friend can be a big plus, always good to have a "man on the inside".
Actually, one of em has been flaking and not returning my calls since she found some guy. Oh well. The same holds true with female friends and potential g/fs: if they flake on you, write that b!tch off.
Actually, one of em has been flaking and not returning my calls since she found some guy. Oh well. The same holds true with female friends and potential g/fs: if they flake on you, write that b!tch off.