"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys who are naturals with woman...

jessup

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Are there any guys here that are just naturals with woman?

I know all this basic stuff - it comes naturally. I need to find people to share my experiences with and to learn more advanced stuff.

I'm looking for the popular kids, the kids that have no issues with confidence, the kids that have made out with over 40 girls and already had sex with more than one girl...

Anyone? Or am I just the only one?

:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude chill out you dont need to call me out like that, I'm trying to keep it a secret. PM me
 

Maeisgood

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That Dimebagdarrel reply there was a good example of c + f.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ4Real

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What's the need for advanced stuff if you already know the stuff?
 

Microphone Fiend

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You know that in the seduction community a natural is someone who just has a way with women. Not neccesarily because he is good lookin, but just an aura, like babies will smile when they see him, old people often talk to him for no reason, when he approaches, gurls are happy he did, he gets stuff for free, and people always assume the best about him
 
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