"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guys who are naturals with woman...

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jessup

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Are there any guys here that are just naturals with woman?

I know all this basic stuff - it comes naturally. I need to find people to share my experiences with and to learn more advanced stuff.

I'm looking for the popular kids, the kids that have no issues with confidence, the kids that have made out with over 40 girls and already had sex with more than one girl...

Anyone? Or am I just the only one?

:confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dimebag_Darrell

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Dude chill out you dont need to call me out like that, I'm trying to keep it a secret. PM me
 
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Maeisgood

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That Dimebagdarrel reply there was a good example of c + f.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ4Real

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What's the need for advanced stuff if you already know the stuff?
 
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Microphone Fiend

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You know that in the seduction community a natural is someone who just has a way with women. Not neccesarily because he is good lookin, but just an aura, like babies will smile when they see him, old people often talk to him for no reason, when he approaches, gurls are happy he did, he gets stuff for free, and people always assume the best about him
 
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