"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guys who are naturals with woman...

jessup

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Are there any guys here that are just naturals with woman?

I know all this basic stuff - it comes naturally. I need to find people to share my experiences with and to learn more advanced stuff.

I'm looking for the popular kids, the kids that have no issues with confidence, the kids that have made out with over 40 girls and already had sex with more than one girl...

Anyone? Or am I just the only one?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude chill out you dont need to call me out like that, I'm trying to keep it a secret. PM me
 

Maeisgood

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That Dimebagdarrel reply there was a good example of c + f.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ4Real

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What's the need for advanced stuff if you already know the stuff?
 

Microphone Fiend

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You know that in the seduction community a natural is someone who just has a way with women. Not neccesarily because he is good lookin, but just an aura, like babies will smile when they see him, old people often talk to him for no reason, when he approaches, gurls are happy he did, he gets stuff for free, and people always assume the best about him
 
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