"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys that do night game but don't drink are unaware of how weird they usually are.

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When i was at my peak PUA game i got some terrible heartburn from too much coffee, bad diet and alcohol.

I dropped the coffee and alcohol and did great. Being sober was like being a few seconds ahead of your friend watching the same sporting game. You know the outcome quicker. It was so easy to adjust and talk to women and the confidence of knowing you didnt need a crutch like alcohol is incredible
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I kind of agree with the OP. I mean women know you are there to try to pick somebody up but if you aren't drinking it does make it seem like you are there ONLY to pick someone up and thats a creepy/desperate look for sure.
 
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Ricky said:
When i was at my peak PUA game i got some terrible heartburn from too much coffee, bad diet and alcohol.

I dropped the coffee and alcohol and did great. Being sober was like being a few seconds ahead of your friend watching the same sporting game. You know the outcome quicker. It was so easy to adjust and talk to women and the confidence of knowing you didnt need a crutch like alcohol is incredible
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The solution to that is doing non-approaching. It's possible to arrange dates via non-bar approaching.

If you non-bar approaching, you still need a venue for hosting your 1st dates and you might also need to do a 2nd date in public before a 3rd date at home. If you can get sex on the first date, that's awesome and you have top notch game. Not all guys can get the sex on the first date. You'll probably need a bar and alcohol for dates.
 
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