"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys, Seriously Help Me Out

Francisco d'Anconia

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DonJuanForever said:
Hey Fran, you said,

"Have you tried looking into networking web sites that are geared to your market? Look into whether they have user groups too, they usually have contact information."

This was where I was looking into currently. I'm just a little confused on how they work though, some guys told me that on usergroups or discussion forums for businesses they will include a guy's email and contact information.

But I'm uncertain on how to locate those groups. I need contact information for Commercial and Industrial Business Executives.
Unfortunately you won't find many of the "C level" executives in these user groups, they end up sending their minion (middle level manager). Here's an idea, you're looking for the guys with "big check" signing authority, right? How about some of the business journals or even a business university's alumni directory?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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