"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Guys, Seriously Help Me Out

Francisco d'Anconia

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DonJuanForever said:
Hey Fran, you said,

"Have you tried looking into networking web sites that are geared to your market? Look into whether they have user groups too, they usually have contact information."

This was where I was looking into currently. I'm just a little confused on how they work though, some guys told me that on usergroups or discussion forums for businesses they will include a guy's email and contact information.

But I'm uncertain on how to locate those groups. I need contact information for Commercial and Industrial Business Executives.
Unfortunately you won't find many of the "C level" executives in these user groups, they end up sending their minion (middle level manager). Here's an idea, you're looking for the guys with "big check" signing authority, right? How about some of the business journals or even a business university's alumni directory?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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