"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys, I'm about to crack right now.

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If you weren't ruled by emotion, you'd be over this chick by now.

Instead, you have ONEitis for a chick who played you AND the guy she left you for (physically, emotionally, whatever).

Instead, since it ended dramatically, you are caught up.

And drama free? You might be telling the truth. But based on that email you shared with us and other info regarding her actions that you shared on that thread, I highly doubt all that.

It's your life. Your wifey material.

<sneers and spits on the ground. then gropes herself and walks away>
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ThunderMaverick said:
You mentioned attention wh0ring and trolling. How do those words help anyone?

If you don't, just for future reference, if you do decide to name call again, I won't be taking your replies seriously.

First of all I never called you those names, I said your taking it to that territory.

More importantly how does calling yourself lazy help anyone?
 

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iqqi said:
If you weren't ruled by emotion, you'd be over this chick by now.

Instead, you have ONEitis for a chick who played you AND the guy she left you for (physically, emotionally, whatever).
You and I are going to have to disagree about what we mean by emotions ruling us. In my opinion, you're dead wrong. I already explained so we won't have to argue about this again.

Instead, since it ended dramatically, you are caught up.
Well of course there is ego invested in the break up. I didn't want to, so of course that affected me. However it's not the only reason I miss her. I would realize that and move on a lot more smoothly if that was the only factor. I'm not stupid, and it isn't the only reason I'm "caught up" as you say.

And drama free? You might be telling the truth. bla bla bla bla...
No, I AM telling the truth. Believe it or not. It's up to you. Your problem, not mine. :D




<sneers and spits on the ground. then gropes herself and walks away>
You're an animal.
 

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sometimes a man just has to stop speaking. some of you haven't learned that lesson. some time taking a conversation forward will only result in diminished returns.

Never argue with a fool. Someone watching may not be able to tell the difference.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iqqi said:
It is his justification for thinking the girl is "wifey material", and his ongoing ONEitis.
I'm making the point that if someone is happy with someone, they don't break up. I'm making the point that if you don't have confidence in yourself, if you're lazy, and if you have money problems, it's only a matter of time before things don't work out.

I did a lot of things wrong to make that relationship NOT work. Stop treating me like I didn't do anything wrong and making her out to be Satan who loves to eat men's souls. It's silly.
 

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Warrior74 said:
sometimes a man just has to stop speaking. some of you haven't learned that lesson. some time taking a conversation forward will only result in diminished returns.

Never argue with a fool. Someone watching may not be able to tell the difference.

You're right. That's a good suggestion.
 

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I'm making the point that if someone is happy with someone, they don't break up. I'm making the point that if you don't have confidence in yourself, if you're lazy, and if you have money problems, it's only a matter of time before things don't work out.

I did a lot of things wrong to make that relationship NOT work. Stop treating me like I didn't do anything wrong and making her out to be Satan who loves to eat men's souls. It's silly.
YOU are the one who is villifying yourself.

Being a lowdown h0 is COMPLETELY different from being broke and down on your luck.



YOU: Broke. Down on your luck financially. Lazy.

HER: Investing emotions in another man. Emailing one man (her ex) about another (the man she left him for)'s apendages, and "relationship issues". And basically cheating on him through email. Ect. ect.



Two completely different types of issues. One is situational, the other is character.

PLEASE post that email again, I guarantee you will get the whipping of your life AGAIN for considering that chick to be "wife material". Since noone remembers. I do! Even the things I am bringing up, aren't half as bad as the entirety of that email! My god, I can't remember a more lowdown chick.
 

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iqqi said:
YOU are the one who is villifying yourself.

Being a lowdown h0 is COMPLETELY different from being broke and down on your luck.



YOU: Broke. Down on your luck financially. Lazy.

HER: Investing emotions in another man. Emailing one man (her ex) about another (the man she left him for)'s apendages, and "relationship issues". And basically cheating on him through email. Ect. ect.



Two completely different types of issues. One is situational, the other is character.

PLEASE post that email again, I guarantee you will get the whipping of your life AGAIN for considering that chick to be "wife material". Since noone remembers. I do!
Uh. All that wasted text and you forget that being lazy and poor wasn't my only problem.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iqqi said:
He is talking about YOU.

But I will be another fool and keep slamming sense into your head.
No, he was talking about US. You FOOL!

We're not getting anywhere.
 

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Uh. All that wasted text and you forget that being lazy and poor wasn't my only problem.
Well you still have major confidence issues.

I am sure if that doesn't change you will indeed end up with a lowdown h0 for a wife. Who will leave you for some guy with a small d!ck the minute you have another streak of bad luck, and she has to get a job. Of course a year later she will email you and tell you all about the new man and HIS "awful issues".

I wonder if there is a parallel sosuave universe, where that guy is also pining away for some lowdown chick, and blaming his "size" issues on the break up. Of course he probably doesn't even know that was an "issue". Who knows what "issues" he knows about you, that you don't.

BAM.
 

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iqqi said:
Well you still have major confidence issues.

I am sure if that doesn't change you will indeed end up with a lowdown h0 for a wife. Who will leave you for some guy with a small d!ck the minute you have another streak of bad luck, and she has to get a job. Of course a year later she will email you and tell you all about the new man and HIS "awful issues".

I wonder if there is a parallel sosuave universe, where that guy is also pining away for some lowdown chick, and blaming his "size" issues on the break up. Of course he probably doesn't even know that was an "issue". Who knows what "issues" he knows about you, that you don't.

BAM.

Weak.
 

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iqqi said:
Well you still have major confidence issues. What I'm doing is basically repeating what you said about yourself, because if I say it IT'S NEW! I mean you actually SAID it, but I'll say it and hope people take it as something he didn't realize before.
Weak.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iqqi said:
I am sure if that doesn't change you will indeed end up with a lowdown h0 for a wife. Who will leave you for some guy with a small d!ck the minute you have another streak of bad luck, and she has to get a job. Of course a year later she will email you and tell you all about the new man and HIS "awful issues".

I wonder if there is a parallel sosuave universe, where that guy is also pining away for some lowdown chick, and blaming his "size" issues on the break up. Of course he probably doesn't even know that was an "issue". Who knows what "issues" he knows about you, that you don't.

BAM.
As much as I hate iqqi's delivery from what you provided about your ex,TM, she was just another garden variety, branch swinging opportunist. I think you are probably meeting better prospects but your sentiments and emotions are blinding you to that. It'll just take time and you'll realize your ex wasn't all that great.
 

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ketostix said:
As much as hate iqqi's delivery from what you provided about your ex,TM, she was just another garden variety, branch swinging opportunist. I think you are probably meeting better prospects but your sentiments and emotions are blinding you to that. It'll just take time and you'll realize your ex wasn't all that great.
You're probably right.
 
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