"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guys I need advice here on whether to pursue this girl or just give up.

Dave111

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Hi guys I posted here yesterday about a girl I was dating (see link)

Im in two minds, I dont know whether I should pursue her after she turned her cheek towards me when I went to kiss her yesterday and I've got to admit its thrown me off somewhat, as I didn't see it coming.

should I ask her out again and run risk of yet another rejection in Dave111's life or should I just maybe take this as a hint and move on.
 

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Dukester

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it could mean one of 2 things, she's shy, and nervous about it.

or

she really doesnt like you.

when i was going out w/ this one girl for a lil over a month, i could see things going downhill, but i was willing to still give it a chance.
i went to kiss her one night after dinner, and she turned, and gave me the cheek.
i was like, fvck no, and broke up w/ her on the spot. and the funny thing is, that she was hurt more than i was
 

NewMan

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it was the first date.

It's not a great sign - but if you dig her go out again. Don't think about it though, just have fun
 

The DomMega

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Wow, some of you seem to be really "by-the-book." The sooner you're able to think outside that book, the better off you'll do in your interactions with the women you're with. You shouldn't have a "checklist" or things you do first when going out with someone for the first time, every scenario's different. Just go out there and adapt to your environmental factors and play off the events that ensue while the two of you are together. You should've known if this girl was gonna let you suck her face or not mang. The vibes are usually there for you to read when they present themselves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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