"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys I need advice here on whether to pursue this girl or just give up.

Dave111

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Hi guys I posted here yesterday about a girl I was dating (see link)

Im in two minds, I dont know whether I should pursue her after she turned her cheek towards me when I went to kiss her yesterday and I've got to admit its thrown me off somewhat, as I didn't see it coming.

should I ask her out again and run risk of yet another rejection in Dave111's life or should I just maybe take this as a hint and move on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dukester

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it could mean one of 2 things, she's shy, and nervous about it.

or

she really doesnt like you.

when i was going out w/ this one girl for a lil over a month, i could see things going downhill, but i was willing to still give it a chance.
i went to kiss her one night after dinner, and she turned, and gave me the cheek.
i was like, fvck no, and broke up w/ her on the spot. and the funny thing is, that she was hurt more than i was
 

NewMan

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it was the first date.

It's not a great sign - but if you dig her go out again. Don't think about it though, just have fun
 

The DomMega

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Wow, some of you seem to be really "by-the-book." The sooner you're able to think outside that book, the better off you'll do in your interactions with the women you're with. You shouldn't have a "checklist" or things you do first when going out with someone for the first time, every scenario's different. Just go out there and adapt to your environmental factors and play off the events that ensue while the two of you are together. You should've known if this girl was gonna let you suck her face or not mang. The vibes are usually there for you to read when they present themselves.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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