"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guys I need advice here on whether to pursue this girl or just give up.

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Dave111

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Hi guys I posted here yesterday about a girl I was dating (see link)

Im in two minds, I dont know whether I should pursue her after she turned her cheek towards me when I went to kiss her yesterday and I've got to admit its thrown me off somewhat, as I didn't see it coming.

should I ask her out again and run risk of yet another rejection in Dave111's life or should I just maybe take this as a hint and move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dukester

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it could mean one of 2 things, she's shy, and nervous about it.

or

she really doesnt like you.

when i was going out w/ this one girl for a lil over a month, i could see things going downhill, but i was willing to still give it a chance.
i went to kiss her one night after dinner, and she turned, and gave me the cheek.
i was like, fvck no, and broke up w/ her on the spot. and the funny thing is, that she was hurt more than i was
 
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NewMan

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it was the first date.

It's not a great sign - but if you dig her go out again. Don't think about it though, just have fun
 
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The DomMega

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Wow, some of you seem to be really "by-the-book." The sooner you're able to think outside that book, the better off you'll do in your interactions with the women you're with. You shouldn't have a "checklist" or things you do first when going out with someone for the first time, every scenario's different. Just go out there and adapt to your environmental factors and play off the events that ensue while the two of you are together. You should've known if this girl was gonna let you suck her face or not mang. The vibes are usually there for you to read when they present themselves.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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