"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Guys, I am relocating to Australia

Deadly_Assassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 8, 2003
Messages
549
Reaction score
4
Age
42
Yes, I am moving to Australia soon, hopefully middle of August. I am living in New Zealand btw.

I am moving there because of better job opportunities, weather and lifestyle. I am most likely going to look for a job as a flight instructor at one of the Flying Schools. Hopefully I will get a chance in Melbourne.

Could someone give me an estimate on living costs in Melbourne? Just so I get a rough idea and I can budget for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Deadly_Assassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 8, 2003
Messages
549
Reaction score
4
Age
42
Hey, thanx for that site jitterbug, it is really good.

Aussie 'cheeks' do seem to like the kiwi guys though.

New Zealand is going down the drain day by day. Petrol is $2.20/L. Thats $2.00 Australian. Everything is expensive and life is really slow and boring. I really needed a change.

It would be good to meet up with fellow Djs living in Melbourne.
 

Gaucho

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2007
Messages
464
Reaction score
10
Melbourne is more like a big country town. More relaxed than Sydney.

However, Sydney IMO has the hotter woman and a far more buzzing atmosphere, it is actually a big city (but you have to go to the right places).

Either way, like every city, there are plenty of hot woman around, just have to make them yours.

I know a few Kiwis here, most of them are very nice people. Funny, relaxed and down to earth.
 

Quiksilver

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2006
Messages
2,813
Reaction score
55
I'm flying out to Brisbane on the 22nd of July with no return ticket :D

Melbourne's economy is pretty high right now, Sydney is a little slower, and Brisbane is over inflated.

Melbourne's a fantastic city with great nightlife.. good club scene. The only downside is that winters can be chilly. Come up to the Gold Coast and I'll get you in on some action ;)
 

OzyBoy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2004
Messages
700
Reaction score
6
Location
Sydney
I don't like Melbourne that much. I have been there a couple of times before, the weather was crap and i thought it was quite dirty.
 

Deadly_Assassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 8, 2003
Messages
549
Reaction score
4
Age
42
I am booking a one-way to Melbourne.

Yea that would be good quiksilver. I have been to Brisbane before, nice place. Plenty of hot women. Especially during schoolies. When you leaving for Brisbane?

Can't wait for the day I leave...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
I'm thinking of moving to Tasmania. Cleanest air on the planet, beautiful bushland and oceans. A bit cold though.

Anyone have any experiance with Tazzy?
 

Jitterbug

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2008
Messages
3,197
Reaction score
140
The social life in Tassie sucks. You wouldn't want to live there unless you don't care much about going out. That said, I met some very beautiful & nice women when I visited Tassie.
 

seasonedplayer

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 16, 2004
Messages
156
Reaction score
5
Age
49
Location
Sydney
Melbourne is a good choice - best place in australia by a mile

Chicks are not as good looking as sydney but have FAR LESS attitude
 
Top