"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys, I am relocating to Australia

Deadly_Assassin

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Yes, I am moving to Australia soon, hopefully middle of August. I am living in New Zealand btw.

I am moving there because of better job opportunities, weather and lifestyle. I am most likely going to look for a job as a flight instructor at one of the Flying Schools. Hopefully I will get a chance in Melbourne.

Could someone give me an estimate on living costs in Melbourne? Just so I get a rough idea and I can budget for it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Deadly_Assassin

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Hey, thanx for that site jitterbug, it is really good.

Aussie 'cheeks' do seem to like the kiwi guys though.

New Zealand is going down the drain day by day. Petrol is $2.20/L. Thats $2.00 Australian. Everything is expensive and life is really slow and boring. I really needed a change.

It would be good to meet up with fellow Djs living in Melbourne.
 

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Melbourne is more like a big country town. More relaxed than Sydney.

However, Sydney IMO has the hotter woman and a far more buzzing atmosphere, it is actually a big city (but you have to go to the right places).

Either way, like every city, there are plenty of hot woman around, just have to make them yours.

I know a few Kiwis here, most of them are very nice people. Funny, relaxed and down to earth.
 

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I'm flying out to Brisbane on the 22nd of July with no return ticket :D

Melbourne's economy is pretty high right now, Sydney is a little slower, and Brisbane is over inflated.

Melbourne's a fantastic city with great nightlife.. good club scene. The only downside is that winters can be chilly. Come up to the Gold Coast and I'll get you in on some action ;)
 

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I don't like Melbourne that much. I have been there a couple of times before, the weather was crap and i thought it was quite dirty.
 

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I am booking a one-way to Melbourne.

Yea that would be good quiksilver. I have been to Brisbane before, nice place. Plenty of hot women. Especially during schoolies. When you leaving for Brisbane?

Can't wait for the day I leave...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm thinking of moving to Tasmania. Cleanest air on the planet, beautiful bushland and oceans. A bit cold though.

Anyone have any experiance with Tazzy?
 

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The social life in Tassie sucks. You wouldn't want to live there unless you don't care much about going out. That said, I met some very beautiful & nice women when I visited Tassie.
 

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Melbourne is a good choice - best place in australia by a mile

Chicks are not as good looking as sydney but have FAR LESS attitude
 
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