"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Guys, I am relocating to Australia

Deadly_Assassin

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Yes, I am moving to Australia soon, hopefully middle of August. I am living in New Zealand btw.

I am moving there because of better job opportunities, weather and lifestyle. I am most likely going to look for a job as a flight instructor at one of the Flying Schools. Hopefully I will get a chance in Melbourne.

Could someone give me an estimate on living costs in Melbourne? Just so I get a rough idea and I can budget for it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deadly_Assassin

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Hey, thanx for that site jitterbug, it is really good.

Aussie 'cheeks' do seem to like the kiwi guys though.

New Zealand is going down the drain day by day. Petrol is $2.20/L. Thats $2.00 Australian. Everything is expensive and life is really slow and boring. I really needed a change.

It would be good to meet up with fellow Djs living in Melbourne.
 

Gaucho

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Melbourne is more like a big country town. More relaxed than Sydney.

However, Sydney IMO has the hotter woman and a far more buzzing atmosphere, it is actually a big city (but you have to go to the right places).

Either way, like every city, there are plenty of hot woman around, just have to make them yours.

I know a few Kiwis here, most of them are very nice people. Funny, relaxed and down to earth.
 

Quiksilver

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I'm flying out to Brisbane on the 22nd of July with no return ticket :D

Melbourne's economy is pretty high right now, Sydney is a little slower, and Brisbane is over inflated.

Melbourne's a fantastic city with great nightlife.. good club scene. The only downside is that winters can be chilly. Come up to the Gold Coast and I'll get you in on some action ;)
 

OzyBoy

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I don't like Melbourne that much. I have been there a couple of times before, the weather was crap and i thought it was quite dirty.
 

Deadly_Assassin

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I am booking a one-way to Melbourne.

Yea that would be good quiksilver. I have been to Brisbane before, nice place. Plenty of hot women. Especially during schoolies. When you leaving for Brisbane?

Can't wait for the day I leave...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wolf116

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I'm thinking of moving to Tasmania. Cleanest air on the planet, beautiful bushland and oceans. A bit cold though.

Anyone have any experiance with Tazzy?
 

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The social life in Tassie sucks. You wouldn't want to live there unless you don't care much about going out. That said, I met some very beautiful & nice women when I visited Tassie.
 

seasonedplayer

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Melbourne is a good choice - best place in australia by a mile

Chicks are not as good looking as sydney but have FAR LESS attitude
 
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