"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys how do you talk in clubs?

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Ever think about the fact that Alphas are more preoccupied with what's going on around them than who's around them? I'd rather focus on the women around me, but that's just me. :cool:
Very true. I stick by the dancing lessons comment though. Think about it...why do girls go to clubs? Not just to drink overpriced watered down mixed drinks and have drunk guys attempt to grind their junk all over them. They actually like to dance. If you like to dance, and they like to dance, then there's your common ground. You've got your foot in the door.

Personally, I don't give a rat's ass about clubs because I despise techno music and most top 40 crap they play in a lot of clubs. Lots of hotties there, but there are also lots of hotties at college bars too. And better music, IMHO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MooseGod said:
Very true. I stick by the dancing lessons comment though. Think about it...why do girls go to clubs? Not just to drink overpriced watered down mixed drinks and have drunk guys attempt to grind their junk all over them. They actually like to dance. If you like to dance, and they like to dance, then there's your common ground. You've got your foot in the door.
Exactly. I let the alpha's battle it out negging each other at the bar. I'll grab a hottie to go out onto the dancefloor the first chance I get.
MooseGod said:
Personally, I don't give a rat's ass about clubs because I despise techno music and most top 40 crap they play in a lot of clubs. Lots of hotties there, but there are also lots of hotties at college bars too. And better music, IMHO.
I'm strange, I still like techno and trance. I can't stand Top 40, it all sounds the same. Plus I tend to enjoy women who like dancing to trance, they seem a bit more easy going and out to have a good time dancing all night rather than just getting free drinks all night.
 
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