"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys how do you talk in clubs?

MooseGod

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Ever think about the fact that Alphas are more preoccupied with what's going on around them than who's around them? I'd rather focus on the women around me, but that's just me. :cool:
Very true. I stick by the dancing lessons comment though. Think about it...why do girls go to clubs? Not just to drink overpriced watered down mixed drinks and have drunk guys attempt to grind their junk all over them. They actually like to dance. If you like to dance, and they like to dance, then there's your common ground. You've got your foot in the door.

Personally, I don't give a rat's ass about clubs because I despise techno music and most top 40 crap they play in a lot of clubs. Lots of hotties there, but there are also lots of hotties at college bars too. And better music, IMHO.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MooseGod said:
Very true. I stick by the dancing lessons comment though. Think about it...why do girls go to clubs? Not just to drink overpriced watered down mixed drinks and have drunk guys attempt to grind their junk all over them. They actually like to dance. If you like to dance, and they like to dance, then there's your common ground. You've got your foot in the door.
Exactly. I let the alpha's battle it out negging each other at the bar. I'll grab a hottie to go out onto the dancefloor the first chance I get.
MooseGod said:
Personally, I don't give a rat's ass about clubs because I despise techno music and most top 40 crap they play in a lot of clubs. Lots of hotties there, but there are also lots of hotties at college bars too. And better music, IMHO.
I'm strange, I still like techno and trance. I can't stand Top 40, it all sounds the same. Plus I tend to enjoy women who like dancing to trance, they seem a bit more easy going and out to have a good time dancing all night rather than just getting free drinks all night.
 
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