"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guys how do you talk in clubs?

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Ever think about the fact that Alphas are more preoccupied with what's going on around them than who's around them? I'd rather focus on the women around me, but that's just me. :cool:
Very true. I stick by the dancing lessons comment though. Think about it...why do girls go to clubs? Not just to drink overpriced watered down mixed drinks and have drunk guys attempt to grind their junk all over them. They actually like to dance. If you like to dance, and they like to dance, then there's your common ground. You've got your foot in the door.

Personally, I don't give a rat's ass about clubs because I despise techno music and most top 40 crap they play in a lot of clubs. Lots of hotties there, but there are also lots of hotties at college bars too. And better music, IMHO.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MooseGod said:
Very true. I stick by the dancing lessons comment though. Think about it...why do girls go to clubs? Not just to drink overpriced watered down mixed drinks and have drunk guys attempt to grind their junk all over them. They actually like to dance. If you like to dance, and they like to dance, then there's your common ground. You've got your foot in the door.
Exactly. I let the alpha's battle it out negging each other at the bar. I'll grab a hottie to go out onto the dancefloor the first chance I get.
MooseGod said:
Personally, I don't give a rat's ass about clubs because I despise techno music and most top 40 crap they play in a lot of clubs. Lots of hotties there, but there are also lots of hotties at college bars too. And better music, IMHO.
I'm strange, I still like techno and trance. I can't stand Top 40, it all sounds the same. Plus I tend to enjoy women who like dancing to trance, they seem a bit more easy going and out to have a good time dancing all night rather than just getting free drinks all night.
 
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