"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys giving too much attention

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Zenboy93

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So basically I'm pursuing this hot chick who seem to be getting a lot of attention lately by the guys, everything was going well and nicely until these guys gave her attention, she started to be allof and cold... Has anyone faced this kind of situation where 5 other guys are on the same girl and don't know how to do it right ?
I realised that by not giving her attention she comes running to me ( espression ) trying to open up a convo and to talk with me. So basically I wanted your opinions on this one and it might help other guys !
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be different and act distant, she may want all the attention from the guys but by being different you give her something to chase and wonder about. You must stick to this strategy though if you want to bang her. I tried the same thing with this girl ive been seeing for the past month and she started chasing me and I went afc and gave her my time and attention too quick and she tried to use me for it. Be careful and keep the frame that its HER who should be chasing YOU. If she is really interested she will bite, just keep her hooked and when you go out with her show her your fun side and that you can have a good time. Dont take disrespect from anyone and if she tries to test her boundaries (ie, disrespecting you) put her in her place and dont be afraid to walk away.
 
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Personally I do agree to an extent with the post above. However, her being attracted isn't really a given, but reading the OP I'd say she might be. I'm having the pleasure of driving through a township atm (something only niño has the pleasure of) and these guys are extremely positive, atleast the kids. Be positive. Anyways, be direct too. The window will close someday. Even if she might chase you, you're still the man; you also need to chase some tail and close the deal. Have some options.
 
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