"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guys after a long time,im on a stump

gherald

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i dont but i guess my confidence is losing...

well,this is my problem,i had a haircut and it really turned out bad. (cursed you damn haircutter) i usually have a nice hair that fits my facial structure but this time the haircutter cut it short because something stupid came up...

anyway, everyone at our campus started mocking me...but i still try to be confident and joke about it...but lately, i dont seem to get the attention i used to get before...so i thought i must be my hair...

so im planning to buy a wig but im half worried (and the other is excitement) that that wont fix the problem and maybe my friends will mock me more...

any suggestion guys?any advice would help...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gherald

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awww...man i rally like to keep my looks private...but basically,it was really short and no remedy can be done...
 

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woow, don't do that man! Your confidence must NOT be in your hair... DON'T be insecure about it, just reframe it and come back to thee game. The attraction will come instantly when u put your game together, your looks will only help, but not be decisive.
 

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i know i would laugh more if you had a wig on....

just wait for it to grow out and say **** it to people who laugh cuz u have short hair!?!?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why would u laugh?

i really feel so weak because of that fvcking old man...

T_T and i need a confidence booster..
 

gherald

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i guess u guys say the same thing...

but can u suggest any confidence booster?

cause right now i feel like im mr nobody...
 

Daniel Di Lorenzo

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Well, I think u can go to the field and approach a buch of women, or u can start therapy. Is always good to deal with your issues before.
 
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